Shooting Straight
Is honesty really the best policy? Although it may call for a bit of tact from time to time, I believe the answer is "yes". Several years ago, a colleague (Bob) showed me the light. I was complaining to Bob about one of his employees (John) missing an important deadline. I assured Bob I had been following the issue closely, and that John had indeed made several mistakes that resulted in the missed deadline. Bob's response was simple yet sincere: "Oh, ok, let me go get John so that we can talk about it." I thought to myself: We? No, I wanted you to talk to him . I quickly stopped him and explained that I wasn't trying to cause a confrontation, and asked if he could talk to John privately. He looked confused. After a short pause, and with a bit of grace, he explained to me that it would be difficult for him to address John without me, since I claimed to have all of the facts about how it happened. He had a point. Why...